What Do You Really Want?
Monday, July 26, 2010 - by Onetta Bellamy
You know this last year or so, it’s been all this talk about Black women standards being too high when it comes to dating and finding a husband. It’s funny because when I take a look around, I think some Black women standards aren’t high enough. Some Black women are just settling for anything and putting up with a lot of bullsh*t! To that I say, You Deserve Better!
But my question is this, what qualities do you want in a man? What do you really want?
I don’t know why they say that our standards are too high. What about the men their standards just as high! They look for unrealistic things in women based on what they see on tv but what they don’t realize a lot of these women on tv are being airbrushed, photoshoped and all the above… It’s nothing wrong with having expectations but make sure that it’s realistic! That’s my opinion because I refuse to settle for less. Now there are men that have POTENTIAL and I’m all for potential. Some men need that woman to push them and vice versa so i’m not so something to the point where I can’t be with someone that has potential! potential is good! Now don’t settle for someone who is just a low life and won’t be anything in life because they don’t want to work! That i won’t settle for!
We are ENTITLED to our standards!